like, sociopath is also an outdated as fuck term and it's literally like why the fuck are yall armchair diagnosing folks over the internet lol
just call abuse fucking abuse and FUCKING STOP dragging atypical people under the bus for self righteous bullshit i get that people have been abused by actual narcissists but abuse is NOT inherent w cluster b folks. people really need to fucking stop this fucking bullshit
mild body horror??
where do we go to get like,
"A shifting black pillar dominates the room, writhing and contorting as though in agony. As you approach, you see glinting beaks and mad eyes and, here or there, the shape of a wing.
It's a ten-mile-high tower of conjoined crows, fused together at some skeletal level and draped over a vast beaked totem. There must be millions of birds here, tormented by their unity."
but more lesbian
HIV, PrEP news
This is actually from June, but I don’t feel like this made the rounds.
Apparently all non-grandfathered insurance plans must cover PrEP with $0 patient cost sharing by 2021 plan years. This means no copays, no co-insurance, deductible waived.
It’s preventative medicine and honestly, this is overdue
https://www.healthaffairs.org/do/10.1377/hblog20190613.596797/full/
Advice I would give my younger self: if someone has a reputation for fighting for a cause you believe in, that says nothing about whether they are a kind person. If you meet or interact with them, it will go as well as if you met someone at random you've never heard of.
If someone has a reputation for kindness, then meeting them will probably go well. I've never regretted meeting someone after a person I trust said of them "Wow person xyz is the nicest, kindest human being I know."
a bug, not a feature.
Genderless* cyberfae & co. at your service
assigned adult by the inexorable passage of time
don't use he/him or she/her pronouns for any of us without express permission
note that if we ever make you uncomfortable in any way please tell us so we know to stop. we're not always good at figuring these things out on our own