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[text description continued on ana's comment:

"In my experience it can be crippling and insidious. But I can also see how personally it’s crippling for sufferers similar to social issues in ADHD."] n/2

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[text description. comment friend Ana María Pino said on facebook

"All for awareness of NPD. Having NPD in the family is painful and difficult at least for myself, and my therapist with same background reported the same. I’m all for awareness. I believe people can change. But as someone who’s been gaslit and all the other mind games, I just want more awareness. It’s like being a prisoner and finally someone pulls down these walls keeping you prisoner ...and its dizzying." n/1

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[text description: screenshot of comment friend RJ Rahman said about this on fb:

"i've been around abusive people my entire life. i've been hurt emotionally and physically multiple times. but i still don't have the right to call my abusers sociopaths or narcissists because a) i could be fucking wrong and b) it's not fair to those with antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder who are trying to not be abusive, to lump actual abusive people with them"]

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like, sociopath is also an outdated as fuck term and it's literally like why the fuck are yall armchair diagnosing folks over the internet lol

just call abuse fucking abuse and FUCKING STOP dragging atypical people under the bus for self righteous bullshit i get that people have been abused by actual narcissists but abuse is NOT inherent w cluster b folks. people really need to fucking stop this fucking bullshit

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everyone really needs to stop calling folks narcissists/sociopaths when the people they're referring to aren't diagnosed and are really just known abusers.

abuse is not inherent with cluster b personality disorders.

❌ 'gay panic' is when straight people fret about whether one of their friends is gay

✔️ 'gay panic' is when you're so unbelievably gay that you just go aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

no gods no masters in the streets, oh god yes mistress in the sheets

sees a soft butch girl or a soft futch girl or a soft femme girl

melts

Girl: why is u puddle?

Me: :blobcatmelt:

mild body horror?? 

where do we go to get like,

"A shifting black pillar dominates the room, writhing and contorting as though in agony. As you approach, you see glinting beaks and mad eyes and, here or there, the shape of a wing.

It's a ten-mile-high tower of conjoined crows, fused together at some skeletal level and draped over a vast beaked totem. There must be millions of birds here, tormented by their unity."

but more lesbian

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our most frequent transition goal seems to be the lord of crows, but like. not 'lord' pls thx

"adhd being overdiagnosed is a huge problem" hhmmm yes let's just overlook the fact that around 13% of men are diagnosed w adhd contrasted with Only about 4.2% of women, despite there being dubious to absolutely zero evidence that women suffer from adhd less

I can't imagine that years of Objective Science Cops on TV glancing at skeletons and saying "ah yes this is a male or female according to the Bone Shapes" helped things.

HIV, PrEP news 

This is actually from June, but I don’t feel like this made the rounds.

Apparently all non-grandfathered insurance plans must cover PrEP with $0 patient cost sharing by 2021 plan years. This means no copays, no co-insurance, deductible waived.

It’s preventative medicine and honestly, this is overdue

healthaffairs.org/do/10.1377/h

Abolish private property and you can carry all the seditious material you want

nonbinary fact 

you don’t have to want to look androgynous to be nonbinary, either

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nonbinary fact 

fun fact: you don’t have to look androgynous to be nonbinary

The doctors tell me that I,,, am not funny. I have been informed that it is fatal

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