Meta, racism, thread
I was gonna let this go, but fuck it.
My work brings me into contact with POC every single day. That is why this shit is so frustrating and maddening to me. Because there is absolutely no reason to be giving a WW the benefit of the doubt over 2 whole instances full of POC who are telling you over and over their lived experience. Yall wanna be "believe women" and BLM, but only when it doesnt make you uncomfortable
The answer is neither.
You don't want us to screenshot dunk.
You don't want us to have the screens.
You don't want us to be able to prove shit.
Because you want to be able to squash us by either appealing to morals (because they are screenshot dunking me) or logcikkkkk (because they have no proof)
You want us to shut up and accept being insulted and dunked on.
And the answer for you is that you need to shut the fuck up
homophobia
@avi this is a straw argument
abuse
I had multiple counselors in high school, and I would tell them, "My sister ran away from home. My other sister tried to kill me. I had to talk my mother down from slashing her wrists" and they acted like it was the Self Esteemers episode of Daria instead, idk, doing anything to address my obvious PTSD symptoms or reporting me to CPS.
abuse
Me telling people my adoptive family is very abusive and violent at age 12: Haha, yeah, sure. Ok. You seem to be very introverted, let's work on that, huh?
Me telling people my adoptive family was very abusive and violent at age 35: Oh, that's awful! You went through so much! Why didn't anyone do anything?
@Sapphicgiraffic @caymanwent counterpoint: humans contain no holes and your intestines are actually an interface with the outside world. i was taught this in medschool and i shit u not it is 100% accurate
being treated 'like a man' is different from, and worse than, being treated *as* a man, and that difference is perhaps nowhere more keenly expressed than in relationships between cis women and transmisogyny-exempt 'woman aligned' people, on the one hand, and the nonbinary, transmisogyny-constrained partners whom they treat 'like a man' on the other;
unless it is more starkly articulated in the relationships between cis women and transmisogyny-exempt 'woman aligned' parents and their nonbinary, transmisogyny-constrained children.
it is inaccurate to say that cis feminism 'struggles with' this dynamic; on the contrary, cis feminism is broadly employed as the ideological justification for mis-treating someone 'like a man'.
To celebrate the 10th birthday of #VVVVVV, Terry Cavanagh has published the source code on GitHub http://distractionware.com/blog/2020/01/vvvvvv-is-now-open-source/
My I introduce you to a website that let's you listen to the radio music played in every country in most decades. Yes even Antarctica. It's cool
Trans, guy of center, well over 18.
I'm in tech and it feels weird.