@detondev I'll agree that capitalism has robbed us of most of our free time. But I think these people are scared to know themselves at all, the second a thought about who they are pops up they run the other way.
So they spend their time filling their time and that void where their identity should be with other people and those peoples characteristics.
That's my experience with it at least.

And I have found that you can usually find some time to think about you are and what you want.