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Hearing a transphobe turn around and validate you and learn is more validating than hearing something from ally
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@cogitoergofemme
That, does not sound healthy.
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@Sylvhem @danishcookies please don't tell me it's unhealthy to enjoy being gendered correctly. I have trouble internalising validation because I don't believe people mean it. Seeing someone make a 180 the way they did (context too long of a story) blows that away.
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@cogitoergofemme
Do what you must to maintain your own wellbeing. Just, don't forget that them throw us a bone isn't in anyway an indication that they have really changed at all.
@Sylvhem
