offline friend: we should hang out soon!

me: uh...we're kinda in the biggest spike possible right now...could we hang out in your backyard or in the field next to your house? what about riding bikes?

OF: (a long explanation on why she needs to be working to make money, and the *only* way we could hang out is I sat with her in the car while she does ubereats work)

me: ....[[well seems like you've already outlined the only kind of hangout you're interested in so....]]