there's a chance I saw something in the author of the post that reminded me of my friend that passed away, and a mix between guilt and grief took over as I wrote more advice than that rando deserved? maybe?

but after 2 garbage replies, I'm fairly confident I know this conversation I jumped into isn't going anywhere :\

although I am copy-pasting my advice & links into text documents for later so I can share it later without having to look at this disaster thread