Intro; Selfie; ec
Hey I am no longer a newb but I still dunno what I'm doing... be my friend??
Cool things about me that I toot:
- Trans Femme & Genderqueer
- Disabled/ Chronically Ill
- Gray Ace & Pan/Polyam
- Cooks/Bakes vegan snax
- Star Trek/SSF shitposting
- Yeen Queen
- Anti-capitalism
- Lesbian/pan flirts
- In PDX
- Will add CWs if I missed yours - just lemme know!
PM me, add me on telegram or discord (Deme_Goddex deme#6950), comment - however you like to say hi!
mh (-), pet death
@bee@witches.live I had the exact same thing happen with my cats last year, they were siblings, and one passed away only a week after the other.
Its incredibly rough to lose two closely bonded companions so close together, you have to move so quickly from being a part of their wonderful dynamic to seeing it completely vanish so quickly, I'm sending hugs and will keep your girls in my thoughts, alongside one of my boys who passed only a couple days ago <3
selfies, ec
@deidara !!!! what an incredible aesthetic !!!!
@SunSaint send me ur full name and address and social security number and ill send it over
@SunSaint i live in the UK but I can mail you some scones if that helps?
identity discussion
so while many will describe themselves as having always been trans, and just taking a long time to realise it, I think I genuinely was cis for most of my childhood, but as I have grown into "adult"hood I have changed dramatically, and my gender has grown in complexity to the degree that I now resonate very strongly with my genderqueer identity and feel active discomfort with considering myself male
I don't know who I will be in future, but it doesn't invalidate who I am now
identity discussion
my self identity has shifted a lot over the last few years, and I feel like the common narrative would suggest that those changes were all just experiments in search of my "true self", but I don't really feel like that applies, not in my case at least, I genuinely feel like all my past identities were accurate for the time, even though they directly contradict who I am now.
it's not that my labels have been changing to figure out who I am, it's that I have been changing
Queer kinky poly 21yo confused nonbinary leftist depressed compsci apocalypse of a professional label-collector, uses they/them, allegedly banned from utilising the following articles: uWu, oWo
Boosting always okay unless specified, I need internet points or I starve
Also my brain is a bit of a stormy place and sadposting will appear at times