@Fawn@ohai.social @oliphant Yeah this is part of why it sucks so much, because a lot of people are receptive to the request and want to get better at it. I've just experienced enough of the other type of response to be anxious about bringing it up.

It doesn't help that I've spent so much time on Twitter and Facebook, where no matter how much we beg, most people just outright ignore us. It gets exhausting.