LB, ace issues, tanuki specific
LB: everything syl said!
I have a weird relationship with sexual feelings and it's nuanced and can be deeply uncomfortable. this has changed with time and damage. being more specific is asking me to write a novel. I can bullet it tho:
- no to: being sexual at me, asking me to be sexual
- yes: sensual experiences (cuddles, celebration of bodies)
- ok with: people being horny and sexual around me. encouraged even! y'all do what makes you happy
- you can always ask!
LB, ace issues, fetishes etc
I have hard preferences that put me in fetish space a lot. I love my preferences, I'll celebrate them. but they're not sexual, they're sensual. understand that, and we can be cool and weird and fetishy, if you want to call it that!
this isn't a callout or subtoot, it's me making amends with my feelings, and spelling out the result. it's genuinely been difficult to say out loud since forever.
LB, ace issues, fetishes etc
@Prower aaaaa you know where I'm coming from. it's nice to find resonance here that I didn't feel before!
LB, ace issues, fetishes etc
@heytanuki oohhhh I feel this