gendered societal things (+)
society pushes women to not take up space; I know a lot of transfemme folks who are like HECK THAT and it's beautiful
society pushes men to not take up *emotional* space and I know some transmasc folks that are hecking that real good and it's beautiful
since being outwardly (sometimes subtly!) neither/both, it's so refreshing to just not deal with it, sometimes the world is understanding and lets me take a breath
gendered societal things (+)
I just had breakfast, the hotel waitstaff was super respectful, and it's so comfy. I am a little awkward at first then I realize the experience is really euphoric and I loosen up and actually talk to people like they're people u.u
I love being in not-Texas and I am giving big tips on the company dime for just not gendering me either literally or subtly aaaahhhhh
be nice to tanuki 💜💜💜
