@Genderqueerwolf if you were a ninja turtle what color eye mask would you wear and what would be your martial weapon?
Went to a queer women’s event yesterday hosted by a friend who is a sex educator and we had a bunch of awesome discussions about disability! One story I found particularly interesting was about a blind person who was unable to access audio erotica because of the inaccessibility of apps and websites providing this kind of content. She introduced me to the term “arousal aid”—we love terms that erase stigma. And we talked about how to make her own website more accessible
It's funny how in the last seven years I forgot how much just shrugging and going "sure, lets do this" does for a social life. Going from geeking out about something I overheard someone say in public with them to suddenly finding myself with a rolodex of like 20+ people I could call on for help or hangs/can call on me for help or hangs in just a couple months has been a wild ride
also like learn to decenter orgasm in your sex life you'll be happier. it'll still happen and you'll have less anxiety about it.
@endeavorance I throw in a "Avast ye" from time to time when I need someone to look at something I'm pointing at and it so far always works
@MxSadie that good good bitter heat
@MxSadie that's it growing out my stache again and getting some corduroy trousers
Trans butch dyke, maker of things, teller of tales, author of smut. 30s
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