"nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent" βadvice from elanor roosevelt, via joe the head of security
@Tobi welcome! I like your avatar 
"hi, can i come over sometime? oh, no, i don't want to do anything. just visit. how long? oh maybe a few hours. don't worry you don't have to do anything, i'll completely ignore you. what? no, there's nothing wrong with my house..."
does anyone else feel this way? it's happened to me a couple times but it seems like it would be incredibly awkward to propose explicitly.
gender
another reason: i don't really feel like my gender is an integral part of my personality or self-image
i have all these messaging apps, with friends i could talk to, people i know, but i would never think to text someone without a very specific reason in mind. a link i know they'd like, a question that only they can answer, etc. this doesn't happen very often.
do people actually chat for fun? what do you talk about?
can i be real a second? / for just a millisecond? / let down my guard and tell the people how i feel a second?
β formerly of witches.town β feels β introverted, kinky, geeky, shy, catperson πΈ β they/them β gender is a hoax β

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