i don't like the "current standard" sunset lesbian flag. i don't feel it represents me. lydia's reasoning for this flag (which has since been reordered for color cohesion) speaks much more to me than "let's make the shitty person's flag slightly different" http://archive.is/0rFRD
that being said, if you use the sunset lesbian flag, you do you! nobody has to conform to anything. that's the whole point.