i should probably kept this to my private so people don't jump on me but man i get sad every time i read "MTF trans" prob mostly cause it took me a lot of self-fighting to recognise that i was never male to begin with
i can't tell others how to label themselves. but i hate the MTF label. it feels so misguided for binary trans women. i get that that's probably just me being an ass but i dunno. i wish i could make it bother me less