people get uppity about how mastodon's "DMs" are "unencrypted" and "can be seen by any admin" when
no other social media did any different, this is just how it is in a decentralized version of that
mastodon as a company (hello eugen) could do more to explain that this controls visibility only, which "direct/private message" from learned experience implies otherwise
the whole fucking activitypub spec is a fucking mess anyway we're all just in for the ride