i don't owe forgiveness to those who hurt me
@Stinkie it's hard to remember!
@mavica_again it really is. I just recently read through some old correspondence between myself and an ex-friend. They claimed I was terrible towards them for talking about my own life, and demanded I apologize for being upset over something that didn't involve them, but they spent 4 hours trying I to my personal life against my wishes... And I straight up said I was sorry for making them upset at me 💀
@Stinkie people like that don't deserve our time much less our apologies or regret.
i've had people who made borderline rape threats against me make me feel bad for calling them out simply because they hold more power in the community. fuck em
@mavica_again I have to say this to myself at least once a week.