Humanity as a whole as well as its individual members are most importantly driven by hate (= the urge to protect "theirs" from the "others") and violence (= the means to act on those urges).

Love and care are given to "theirs" and are just the other side of the coin. You'll only receive it when you're counted as "theirs" in some context, and it may be refused in other contexts.

In the meantime I don't even say anymore that it's bad. That's how people are, and it won't change. ❤️