A big problem of having fictives is being able to understand and accept that others may see that fictional character in a very different way and to then not take that personally.
That took me a bit to settle into a good place, even if I still get some oof feelings ^^;
@renbymon I may have popular preconceptions but I'm always willing to learn your experience!
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@ruawhitepaw In short I've been trying to remind myself that one of my fictives is a popular character and that I shouldn't take it personally if other people put themselves into the character :)
