Scarly the Raven @scarly@computerfairi.es
- Pronouns
- they/them/she/her
- Wakanda
- Forever
~your charming trans femme non-binary friend~
~trans, enby, lesbian, black, socialist~
i'm a gay raven. sometimes a gay cat. i like technology, corvids, good stories, long walks on the beach, and destroying the patriarchy. all before breakfast.
i'm fairly antisocial but if you're interesting and nice then probably i'll be a good friend to have around.
currently in a loving relationship with a bunny and a merlin.
Joined Sep 2018
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@scarly so what you're telling me is I should wear a sunhat when I go to kill god
@BoxSystem@plural.cafe @Chel Done!
*headpats face*
@Breakfast tbf, i feel like the sunhat one was def the most dangerous but there was also room for a baseball hat one and a big poofy hat one as well, i'm sure
@compufox Hiiii! Goodness, it's glad to be back. I was really, really, really way too stressed for a bit there. Hahaha. A long bit... Wow, has it really been 9 months? >.>
It's good to see that you're still here, tbh! I was nervous about coming back to this account due to how i might feel if too many people from before weren't around anymore. so, it's good to see that this isn't the case. ^_^
@phyrry Hiii! Life is going... Well. Things were extremely stressful for a while, then... They came back. Currently, I'm in recovery while trying to juggle employment. ^^;
Wooooooo! I'm still alive.
Concussions are serious business. Having now done everything that you could do to mess myself up after my own. I have advice for anyone that might get one of these -
o Don't go back to work asap is possible
o Do listen those that love you and are yelling at you to sit tf down
o Do avoid hitting your head again
o Definitely do not hit it a third time in a row
o Don't pick a fight with an indescribable eldritch horror in a sunhat
o Do praise rabbits and bunnies
i'm still alive! just trying to resume functioning in a capitalist society while grappling with continued concussion recovery
"return to full time" is a simple phrase that hides a lot of complexity and health challenges
@TheHottestPotato i think that's pretty reasonable, tbh - i've always felt like life comes before OSS stuff
and it's important to not feel bad about being away, since i mean - the whole benefit of OSS is that it'll be there when you're back.... i like that about it. kinda like a pleasant family home or somthn, but in software form
@TheHottestPotato that's pretty encouraging to read, to be honest :D
lamia isn't dead, btw - but i've had to step back for a moment due to returning to work full time after a concussion. i'll be back, tho. just didn't want to mix too many challenges together atm XD
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Pronouns PSA
Daily reminder that if you refuse to use someone's pronouns because you find them 'silly' or 'dehumanizing', you're playing into respectability politics.
Denying someone the agency to tell you who they are and how they wish to be addressed is dehumanizing and demeaning in a very -real- way.
guys that take the time to review bomb movies with women in them are pretty pathetic
at this point, i just assume that any cishet guys in my orbit are gonna get canceled within a year or so. and in most cases, yeah it happens.
another day another way for me to earn the "shrill female" badge from my male family members when i smack them for sexism.
are the straights ok?
@behold3r that sounds amazing....
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@scarly upgrade your family by replacing all humans by mouses 🐁
i need a new family. mine is objectively terrible.
realizing that your entire social circle had been made up of individuals with various prejudices and unsafe viewpoints is always a jarring but necessary wake-up call
it's hard to make new friends but sometimes it's necessary.
- Pronouns
- they/them/she/her
- Wakanda
- Forever
~your charming trans femme non-binary friend~
~trans, enby, lesbian, black, socialist~
i'm a gay raven. sometimes a gay cat. i like technology, corvids, good stories, long walks on the beach, and destroying the patriarchy. all before breakfast.
i'm fairly antisocial but if you're interesting and nice then probably i'll be a good friend to have around.
currently in a loving relationship with a bunny and a merlin.
Joined Sep 2018
