hot community take
exclusivity is not a good way to make a community
that means for example a board software that has special cases for certain users to have things unattainable for others
if you want to foster a good community you need a level playing field for everyone to have the same set of features (when those features are for the most part, cosmetic) as everyone else
exclusivity encourages cults of personality
hot community take, maybe subtoot
by all means i'm not saying you're not allowed to have fun with software, go heck the world up with your weird little gadgets made for your and your friends
but please don't try to pass it off as a community open to everyone, it really isn't