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escargot psa: there's a known bug in the server software that makes it so the notifications that someone added you don't reach you until you sign out and back in, in case you think you're not getting those
escargot psa: there's a known bug in the server software that makes it so the notifications that someone added you don't reach you until you sign out and back in, in case you think you're not getting those
so like if you add someone it'd be a good idea to let them know so they can relog and add you back