maple classic™ 
@aschmitz @bea @er1n for some reason the migration just hadn't worked originally and we have no idea why, all other migrations before and after that worked fine
the show_reblogs column on follow_requests was apparently missing, and we were trying to manually add it to the wrong db
manually adding them to the right db (as discovered by @noelle) solved the problem eventually
we don't know why the columns weren't there in the first place but all other migrations worked
@bea @er1n @squirrel Out of curiosity if you don't mind, what was the issue / what fixed it? (I wrote that migration, would like to know if there's anything I can do to avoid that happening in the future.)