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Okay, so, I generally reevaluate my starting assumptions every so often
One of the things I was double-checking this time around was "What gender are you"
My usual answer is "A bloke I guess, haven't thought about it", which isn't really an answer but more of a "dunno"
So, after research (which may have included googling "just what is this gender shit anyway") and a reasonable amount of introspection, looks like I may be classified closer to non-binary
So, uh, that may be a thing
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Doesn't help that "masculinity" and "femininity" are such poorly-defined concepts
Humanity, if you're going to create a social construct it wouldn't kill you to document that shit properly for those of us who turned up late to the party
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@bea Personally I don't really have gender as any part of my core identity, it's more like "I am a sentient entity and I guess I fit in that box there if you want to classify me by that"
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@troubleMoney gotcha gotcha
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@troubleMoney no shit eh???
i found it helpful to think of things in terms of what i wanted to do or look like or have expected of me than what identity i thought made sense
maybe it can be a useful framework for you?