oh yeah! i should also mention that i am slowly getting into #lolitafashion - IN A WAY, I HASTEN TO ADD, THAT IS COMPLETELY NON-SEXUAL. i just like lace and poofy skirts, not grody shit. trying to be lolita while also a #spoonie is going to be a journey! but one of my few tumblrs remaining is sweetdisabled, where i am going to try and chronicle that. so you may also see discussion of that here! (but more often i'll just be talkin' about it on the no-kink beginner-friendly lolita disc i'm in.)