i'm sorry everyone i had two real bangers of posts today on reddit and that's where all my brain went

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i got gold on one of em tho https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/angn2l/help_long_term_partner_caught_kissing_mother_with/eft8wo0/ HHHNGH YES THE VALIDATION OF STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/anmwz4/she_actually_did_it_jenny_milcarthy_threw_out_my/efup5a7/ has actual good advice in it tho i think