@Sapphicgiraffic@snouts.online honestly i've seen a *few* people talking about it as a thing that scans to me as "yeah that exists" but mostly in terms of like foster kids or adopted kids who development in direct response to trauma, like an attachment disorder variant where the emotional logic is "i'm going to ruin this now because then at least i know when it's going to be fucked instead of waiting for when it to fucking happen and having that dread driving me mad"