@Sapphicgiraffic@snouts.online oh yeah, i'm sure that the vast majority of the time it's used as "i diagnose you with your parents are paying me money so get in line"

i think the last time i saw it mentioned in a context where i was like "yeah makes sense" was a professional giving commentary about a video of asylum-seekers reunited at the border, and the very sad scene of a little boy running away from/hitting his mom because he couldn't handle it, which could eventually become oppositionityblahblahblah.