in which a wigglytuff subtoots, yet again
"i'm very sad because my partner thinks the only way they can work on their past traumas is by leaving our relationship, and i hope to show them that they're wrong soon"
sounds like your partner's right buddy, if your contributions are gaslighting them into ignoring their needs for mental wellness, downplaying those needs and trivializing them, and focusing on your need (having them around) above their health
so: lol bye, have a mute
in which a wigglytuff subtoots, yet again
i mean honestly
if your partner says the only way they can work through their trauma and get mental wellness is to not be in a relationship with you
i swear this makes me want to make a Highlights For Children style cartoon
GALLANT is sad but loves their partner and wants them to get help and recovery!
GOOFUS minimizes their partner's stated needs and is concerned mostly about not being in a relationship with them!