@druid ah ok. yeah, it becomes much clearer now.

thanks for keying me in with the idea that a hymen is something you've "taken" and are pleased about doing so. it's just run of the mill misogyny. i gotcha now. thanks for cluing me in there.

if your path - your unique path, you love so much - includes throwing away voices of women (sex workers, here), objectifying women, and dismissing objections to this as "petty trifles" - well, it ain't so unique, it's just same-ol' same-ol'.