@USBloveDog listen i try to be a good ally but if anyone is describing their gender in terms that makes me work out the valence configurations, i WILL start crying
mostly out of reflex
terrified reflex because that was the point at which my slim toehold of "wtf we doin" in chemistry class was totally punted the fuck off into a quagmire of suffering
chemistry class was me being artax the horse in the swamp of sorrows is what i'm saying