i know it's such a cliche for answers online/in columns about relationship advice to be "dump the motherfucking asshole", but
a) people typically don't come to ask advice for genuinely good situations. it's a bit like diagnosing someone being wheeled into the ER as a bit sick perhaps
b) motherfuckers need to be dumped and i will stop saying DTMFA when they stop needing to be dumped
@aradinfinity it's fucking bizarre honestly
i think far too many people do stuff out of a sense that it's what they're supposed to do. you're supposed to have someone you're dating, you're supposed to get married, you're supposed to have kids. the real sad thing is that i think it cheapens the joy of these things, which can all be good and joyful, if people go into them just blindly by rote instead of consciously choosing them
