i'd be lying if i said i didn't occasionally :( when i see someone saying 'kill all cis people' or 'white folks go die' but then i stop and consider that my momentary :( doesn't mean so much in comparison to the awful oppression that people in circumstances other than mine face on a daily basis, all-pervasive and all-encompassing, so like

i can be :( for a sec, they deserve to vent legitimate and real anger