listen, i know it relies on some pretty fucked-up modern shapes of our mental healthcare system, but i am more and more inclined the next person who trots out "well i'm not a racist, it's just not who i am, even though i did [very racist thing]" to turn into a dour-faced concern troll at them: "oh, you're utterly unable to control your own hurtful actions? how awful! well don't worry, i'm sure there's a nice institution where you can live with the round-the-clock care you require..."