@rey @00dani honestly bless you, this is exactly what i needed to hear LMAO

lolita fashion communities can get... ah how do i say this politely. very mean girls very quickly? let's go with that. so we try to make such an effort to be welcoming to all, and it's really to the benefit of the community.

but this one dude... if he's being genuine, i feel sorry for him, but at the end of the day it's also not worth cleaning up after him.