there's a member on lolita server where every single mod is just lined up to boot him. we are just waiting for an excuse. he's good at being obnoxious within technically law abiding ways lmao.

he was complaining about how makeup was hard and he has no idea where to look for ideas to make his face more feminine-looking, and i suggested "well maybe look at drag" and he immediately went "ew"

honey. sweetheart. what do you think you're doing if not drag

"but drag is so OTT!"

I HAVE BAD NEWS ABOUT THE ENTIRE LOLITA FASHION MOVEMENT IF YOU HAVE CONCERNS ABOUT BEING "OVER THE TOP"

thankfully he backed down and was all "oh i didn't mean to imply drag was gross" (and i responded with a rather snarky "Be mindful of what you 'eww', then") but This Dude, Y'all.