@popstar@myasstodon.xyz i mean i literally just showed up here with starbucks five seconds ago, but i'm decidedly unimpressed when someone's response to seeing a racist attack is "well i am rubber you are glue, the REAL bigotry comes back to YOU because you're only doing this on account of hating women and enbies". because that is so inexplicable the only way i can make sense of it is that it's a clumsy attempt to DARVO (https://dynamic.uoregon.edu/jjf/defineDARVO.html), and generally that is not a sign of good, well, anything, really