Harp the Wigglytuff @wigglytuffitout@computerfairi.es

but also holy fuck this lady thinks the problem is solved now that she "knows she needs to not assume SO is a mind reader and ask him for help"

listen not to be all hashtag misandry but

if your partner doesn't think "maybe she could use some help juggling a newborn child after a rough birth, as well as all household tasks like cooking and cleaning, and also also this new beagle puppy i just got her", THAT'S NOT A FAILURE ON YOUR PART FOR NOT INFORMING HIM

HE'S JUST AN ASSHOLE

but the OP dismissed the idea of professional help with saying she doesn't need "happy pills" - thanks for dismissing needed psych meds and reducing psychiatric care down to a bad stereotype i guess? - so yeah, that initial sympathy is still there, but my continued sympathy for current behavior has well and truly evaporated

and for this i expect a mod in my inbox soon L M A O

so yeah i'm kinda going in hard on this OP because i think being physically violent and abusing an animal is something you need to address professionally as soon as possible.

it doesn't mean one incident makes you a bad terrible person for life, but it's a big enough problem that you can't DIY it. to try and DIY it is irresponsible.

however

r/justnoMIL brands itself as being a support sub

and i think this only works when there is the option to call others out on egregious shit.

otherwise, it just becomes a circle jerk of enabling bad behavior. part of 'not being a justno' is being ready and willing to entertain the idea of being wrong (instead of always being right on absolutely everything all the time).

of course this same poster in this same bit went on about how it was so hard for her and she talked it over with one of the mods before baring her soul and it pains her so much

and i actually do have a lot of sympathy for the OP in question. it was a bit of a set-up by her dumbass husband and MIL who thought "oh sure a puppy isn't any extra work for a mother with a newborn", etc.

but honestly

"thank you everyone for being so mature and giving me unwavering support and not saying i'm an animal abuser about my last post where i described hitting and throwing a puppy"

nah no thanks i'm not interested in letting that slide no matter how many cutesy little passive-aggressive remarks you make about it, OP

anyway ya gurl is totally going to get banned from a subreddit today most likely

listen, i know the actual realities of what's going on, but, seeing someone go "can anyone help me get in touch with the admins of anarchism.space" is on some level amusing

a pup lump is very mad i'm not in bed (so i can lift up the covers for her)

I JUST WANT... ALL OF THESE PRETTY THINGS.................

i need some sort of sugar daddy/patron/what have you because i keep going to the Pretty Vulgar website and just pouting egregiously that i don't have all of the makeup

it's not even supposed to be especially good makeup

BUT THE PACKAGING........ THE #AESTHETIQUE...........................

things that are infinite:

-the universe

-the number of digits in pi

-the entitlement of readers of fanfiction that they get to read for free

tonight's hot take in the #starwars fandom

....

.....looks around

.....stands on soapbox

.....THE JEDI ORDER AS SEEN IN THE PREQUELS WAS A CORRUPT ENTITY THAT STOLE BABIES FROM THEIR FAMILIES AND MADE THEM INTO CHILD SOLDIERS; AS AN ORGANIZATION, THEY HAD IT COMIN'. THEY HAD ONLY THEMSELVES TO BLAME. IF YOU'DA BEEN THERE. IF YOU'DA SEEN IT. I TELL YA, YOU WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAAAAME

ultimate scam: offer people who are into the micro/macro fetish thing a YCH for 20 bucks a pop; only draw one image to hand out to every customer unmodified: your character holding the entire globe

#theyreintheresomewhereprobably

i may be moved by the spirit today to yell #darthvader meta today

god knows i haven't really moved in to a place unless i've opened my book of thoughts on darth vader's mental health (pictured below) and screamed into the void about it

dumb fediverse question:

what's the difference between #gaming and #gameing hashtags

there need to be more low-pitched/gruff covers of songs featured in vocaloid rhythm games

because i need one i can sling on to this playlist for darth vader without it being quite so jarring of 'oh god suddenly anime girl'

(if anyone is all 'what the fuck', please look up the lyrics to Meltdown and you will understand perfectly)