Harp the Wigglytuff @wigglytuffitout@computerfairi.es

i got the lemon mint scent and it smells like proper lemon. like actual lemon juice. not fakey lemon, or lemonade, or lemon cleaning product. it's a little amazing.

anyway if you're trying to do the #skincare thing for your dry hands but you're neurodivergent and hate sticky/greasy/creamy hands, or work in a job where it's important to grip shit - totally check the Saem hand light essence out.

i do notice i have to reapply slightly more often but it's an incredibly unique product so woah.gif

maybe someday i can actually Make Content

i've been working on a showdown of the hand creams for sweetdisabled and an interesting new contender has appeared

if you don't like your hands feeling greasy/creamy, but have dry hands - check out the Saem hand light essence.

it's like... if that hand sanitizer gel was the evil twin, this is the angelic good twin. it goes on like a gel, feels like water, melts in REALLY quick. kinda fucking baffled how it works.

my reasoning is that the statements go one of two ways

1. it's bullshit attention seeking, fishing for "nooo you're so greeeat please stay"

2. it's the truth, which is worse, because if the entire hobby is toxic for this person, keeping them on the server as a gateway back into those toxic behaviors is pretty fucking cruel. at that point it's clearly my onus as mod to cut them off if they're here for digital self-harm.

is 'three strikes you're out' a reasonable policy to have with flouncers

a problem user is now on flounce number two, of the "i'm quitting this hobby forever it's terrible for my mental health" type - statements always get walked back to "except for this server".

tbh if it happens a third time i am leaning towards banhammer. is this bonkers too harsh or too soft?

note it's a hobby server, not srs bzns mental support space. (cont)

YO
YOYOYOYO

GUYS

I DIDNT KNOW MR ROGERS WAS BI

THATS FUCKING AWESOME!!!!!!!!

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/mr-rogers-bisexual/#gs.3opemm

i would join the dice discourse and showing off but

i actually don't have any physical dice

reasons:

1. i would lose them constantly

2. pretty ones look like they'd be good to lick but i know they're not going to taste good but Wanna Lick

3. my dog also probably thinks 2 is valid and dice look tasty

die discourse?

diescourse?

i really like kbeauty lip tints - peripera water lip tint, etude house dear darling water gel tint, etc. - but holy shit, they have a fucking learning curve

i am NOT USED to something SO PIGMENTED but also WITH THE VISCOSITY OF WATER

someday i'll figure out how to apply 'em without one of my fingertips stained red for the rest of the day as well but today is not that day.

while getting jeered at by fatphobic assholes on reddit isn't a great way to start the day, it did at least make me sit down and examine my relationship to checking reddit and decide it was a good time to nuke my browsing history, take it off the shortcuts, and generally make it much harder for myself to get into the rut of gawking at misery and wanting to fight people

...

what should i be doing here basically? i'm trying to not step on toes either way, because inviting myself into spaces where i am not invited is boorish, but also pressuring people to out themselves is boorish.

is there a community standard i should be looking to here, or a like commonly done thing practice?

i know i'm probably overthinking this at this point, but overthinking is something i'm quite good at lol

trying to avoid the 💿 🐴, but a question of masto etiquette -

so pronouns listed in profile good, but should i remove mention of being cishet from my profile as well?

i know the idea of listing pronouns is to normalize that/make it easier on trans people, and listing my being cishet may be at cross-purposes with that. but i feel it's also kind of important to note so that i don't come across as like... a bullshit party crasher. i want to make sure i'm properly labelled so people can avoid me.

the smithsonian article also has a delightful picture from the twitter of one of the scientists wherein a banana is included for scale

although other bad things are happening in this world, please remember: new froggies have been discovered in madagascar! they are tiny! and they have been given the new genus name: Mini! and the new frog species are: M. ature, M. scule, and M. mum.

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0213314

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/three-newly-discovered-frog-species-are-among-worlds-smallest-180971819/

anyway everyone here is now formally beholden to not rat me out as being not disabled because i pulled myself together for 15 seconds to take a selfie thanks https://talkpoverty.org/2019/03/28/trump-selfies-dangerous-disabled-people/

ofc you gotta drill a drainage hole in the middle for planters but it could be a cute size for like. One Small Seedling. maybe something like a mint plant

the big chonkers i get my metformin in though would make pretty good pencil cups lmao

yknow i should do some crafts with all of my empty pill bottles

(since i saw that idea and i don't wanna crash the other thread bc it was addressed to an audience i am not part of)

i bet the smaller ones would be cute little seedling containers maybe

i wonder if washi tape sticks to old pill bottles?