"dude" is not gender neutral
you don't have to "play guess the gender" if you only take a second to ask the person or read their bio
if you disagree please feel free to go eat your own shoe
@squirrel I've been slowly trying to phase "dude" out of my vernacular for a while.
It's kinda tough, but making it so you're not misgendering someone is a plus.
@TonicBH by all means people are free to use "dude" with whoever is comfortable with it
but it is not a gender neutral term
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@TonicBH by all means people are free to use "dude" with whoever is comfortable with it
but it is not a gender neutral term