yaoi rant pt 2:
like its not even that i dislike a feminine male protag, it's just that the way its done most the time is so clearly just a way for female readers to self insert, and the character being male is fully redundant other than the infamous "we cant do this... we're both men!!" thing that never actually gets brought up again, you might as well just write a cinderella type story instead and the plot and dialogue would barely even change