@renbymon if you’ve done the research and can afford it, i can pretty confidently say we regret not going for it earlier, and it’s not like there’s any chance of reform bringing in informed consent any time soon or fixing the many problems with trying to wait for the NHS
@renbymon yeah, for us it was the fact that i don’t think we’ve got a route from the lived experience requirement + the UK not legally recognizing non-binary genders; the only way it’d happen would be with pretending to be high femme
and with the local gender identity clinics, we’d be waiting 5+ years by current waitlists