@maple i'll be honest, i now feel much better about my pre-shower decision of seeing that post, seeing the poster had followed me today, and just sliding the user onto block instead of living with the anxiety of wondering when i would be next lol

it makes those worried shower thoughts of justifying such a policy to myself seem much easier and worries far more distant, and is a nice lifepreserver out of the But What If I Am The Asshole vortex