tales from the discord moderating desk
there's a member on lolita server where every single mod is just lined up to boot him. we are just waiting for an excuse. he's good at being obnoxious within technically law abiding ways lmao.
he was complaining about how makeup was hard and he has no idea where to look for ideas to make his face more feminine-looking, and i suggested "well maybe look at drag" and he immediately went "ew"
honey. sweetheart. what do you think you're doing if not drag
tales from the discord moderating desk
i have no idea how this fucker lives with two whole brain cells to rub together and the self-awareness of a box of coconuts
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@wigglytuffitout ..............lollllllllll.
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@InspectorCaracal I KNOW RIGHT
massive Bless Your Heart. moment
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@wigglytuffitout m-maybe they're transfem? drag makes me pretty uncomfortable for very legitimate reasons 
it sounds like they're cis tho
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@00dani we have several transfem members (i am the lone cishet among mods LMAO) and that door has been welcomingly opened for this dude and he has vehemently denied it
he has a long pattern of 4channer nonsense that toes the line just enough that we're all waiting with spring-loaded banhammers, and will probably honestly end up going "listen, we can't point to one specific event, but this is enough low-level bullshit, gtfo"
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@00dani he's just managed to straddle that line between "is this person malicious, or just rolling really bad on his charisma checks" so far, but i think the mods are collectively About Had It and ready to say "at most generous reading you are not able to have social interactions without irritating others deeply and good luck on your future endeavors."
which i admit sounds really mean, but we're also not paid enough to babysit this asshole lol
tales from the discord moderating desk
"but drag is so OTT!"
I HAVE BAD NEWS ABOUT THE ENTIRE LOLITA FASHION MOVEMENT IF YOU HAVE CONCERNS ABOUT BEING "OVER THE TOP"
thankfully he backed down and was all "oh i didn't mean to imply drag was gross" (and i responded with a rather snarky "Be mindful of what you 'eww', then") but This Dude, Y'all.