I'm not good at being outgoing. Initiating conversations, reaching out for this or that, inviting to whatever, even simple crap like sending friend requests and following people. 😬
it... is mildly inconvenient
@behold3r some people have this power
not me ;_;
@decis PULL REQUESTS ARE ACCEPTED!!!
@Chel you did get married to a wicked cool and smart crow tho so you've clearly got some degree of charm, though
@Zelli it only happened because she kicked it all off XD
literally it was like (deadpan Scarlyvoice) "we seem to get along well and work well together. perhaps we should make our partnership more official?"
@Chel @Zelli that was actually a thing. it was literally "hello, we are efficient and effective and communicate well. partnership would seem to be mutually beneficial. will you sign a contract with me?"
also, i knew we worked well bc chel and i had been the mutually antagonistic and hostile community admin and tech admin on a big online community. after all the fighting and Game of Thrones style nonsense, i think we came to rather appreciate each other in a way.
@Chel Wait, I thought people do that only in fiction. Are those real things that are possible to do?