so, @Scarly has started working from home a little bit
my theory is that she's doing this because it allows her to scream in frustration when horrible emails come in
(and let me tell you, there have been a lot of horrible emails)
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I always worry that people end up finding me to be gratingly dull to interact with after a while x_x
I don’t always have much in the way of interesting stuff to say or contribute to conversations with, so I often end up just not really bothering to try and reach out to people since I’m just like ‘eh what’s the point?’
...which is obviously just entirely self defeating and something I need to do better at fighting against. it can be really friggin hard sometimes though. like seriously, shit
i really like the computerfairi.es instance
@maple is cool af. and the computer fairies peeps are beautiful and lovely.
btw, you can trust my opinion bc i'm a crow
funny thing - having a definition of "spoons" as a sort of "unit of effort" gave me a language that i didn't have before. i had never been able to put the entire concept into words.
as a result of having this new definition, i've been able to look at my life and the stuff i need to do in a completely different way. i spend less time kicking myself. i spend more time on fun stuff.
all i had to do was introduce the concept of "i don't have spoons for this atm" to myself.
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I'm a love live fanatic, anime lover, reluctant movie critic, cooking enthusiast, occasional kpop fan, and somewhat casual gamer.
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