contrapoints/passing
Stop fucking holding "passing" up as the end goal of transition, because not everybody can and not everybody wants to - or folks "pass" as something they actually aren't.
I don't blame anybody for wanting to "pass" as a defense mechanism, but if you're going to suggest that other people should be subject to misgendering and erasure to save yourself a little embarassment, you're a little past "defense mechanism" and into "assimilation".
Fuck that noise, and normalize sharing pronouns in all spaces.
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