At five years old, I couldn't grasp the concept of a scapegoat; all I understood was that, because of Japanβs aggression that pulled the United States into the war, my family and I had to leave our home at gunpoint, taking with us only what we could carry. As I got older, I understood scapegoating for what it is: a channel for hate, blame, and bigotry.
My lifelong mission has been preventing this from happening again, yet my heart aches as the LGBTQ+ community faces it now. We've fought for our rights to live, love, and be ourselvesβa vibrant, misunderstood, and often mistreated rainbow of identities.
I have seen where scapegoating, if left unchallenged, leads. And it is a very dark place. This week, I chose to share my story with you in the hopes that we never repeat the heinous mistakes of the past. https://thinkbigpicture.substack.com/p/takei-scapegoating-lgbtq-japanese-internment
This is Arp 271, a pair of spiral galaxies locked in a gravitational dance. In a few billion years the #MilkyWay and the Andromeda galaxy might look like this!
This is the very last #photo ever taken with the VIMOS instrument at ESO's Very Large #Telescope in #Chile, back in 2018. After I finished the decommissioning procedures that night, I decided to take one last image as a farewell, and this was the result.
I'm having extreme deja vu over this, remembering all the discussions my friends and I would have about why we're gay. How did it happen? What made us this way?
Eventually I decided it didn't matter, what mattered is what we did, knowing it. I don't know why I'm gay, I don't know why I'm autistic, I just am. It's part of me, and that's fine.
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As a violinist, I play many gigs. Recently I was asked by a funeral director to play at a graveside service for a homeless man. He had no family or friends, so the service was to be at a pauper's cemetery in the Dorset back country.
As I was not familiar with the country lanes, I got lost and, being a typical man, I didn't stop for directions.
I finally arrived an hour late and saw the funeral guys had evidently gone and the hearse was nowhere in sight. There were only the diggers and crew left and they were eating lunch.
I felt bad and apologised to the men for being late. I went to the side of the grave and looked down and the vault lid was already in place. I didn't know what else to do, so I started to play.
The workers put down their lunches and began to gather around. I played out my heart and soul for this man with no family and friends.
I played like I've never played before for this homeless man.
And as I played 'Amazing Grace,' the workers began to weep. They wept, I wept, we all wept together. When I finished I packed up my violin and started for my car. Though my head hung low, my heart was full.
As I opened the door to my car, I heard one of the workers say, "I never seen nothin' like that before and I've been putting in septic tanks for twenty years."
26 year old david filling an escalade with clothes, and driving from texas --> new york, to live with my best friend
What got me out of that was realizing that what other people did to me wasn't as bad as what I'd been doing myself - accepting the blame for what they'd done, because it had to be something wrong with me. I've been working on that - not blaming myself, not beating myself up. If I was an ass, sure, I'll own that, and I'll apologize, but if I was just being my autistic self and they reacted badly, that's on them, not me.
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I'm not "out" at work - well, they know I'm gay, they just don't know about the autism. I don't know how they'd react, but my particular set of quirks works to their benefit, so they could be fine. They also might have a problem with it. Unless/until there's a reason for them to know, I don't think I'm under any obligation to tell them.
Please don't imagine that you're the first to suddenly pop up and decide their new mission is to protect us poor feebs from our own bad judgement. It happens every few weeks.
I'm all grown up, I look after myself pretty well, and I don't need you to protect me. But hey, thanks for deciding my life will be better with you looking after it.
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For me, it's brown noise. Noise in all frequencies, but adjusted for human hearing sensitivity so it's balanced.
@PeteLittle1970 @actuallyautistic I've listened to various noises very briefly - white, pink, brown etc. I find natural sounds, or ambient music much more effective. I think I need a bit more variation than the pure noise. But I don't feel confident in saying this as I've not done more than listening for a moment and going on my first reaction.
Ocean and rain sounds, and distant thunder are incredibly soothing to me.
I don't see a link to your tracks in your profile - is there somewhere where one can listen to them?
A lizard, blending into a branch.
I'm getting ready to go upstairs now, but I'll leave this:
My ability to camouflage - read the alt text for the rest.:
@sal
I think you're on a mission, and that's totally valid, and I think you're asking good questions. But I'm not the guy to ask them of. I'm not on a mission, and I don't have the energy for one right now.
@actuallyautistic @neurodiversity @Tooden @pathfinder @markusl@fosstodon.org @sentient_water @hosford42
If you didnβt already love Fani Willis, love her for this simple clause:
"In light of Defendant Donald John Trumpβs other criminal and civil matters pending in the courts of our sister sovereigns ..." https://law-and-politics.online/@Teri_Kanefield/110901306376545526
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I didn't know that about colors. I was grilled on how I'd managed to pick sofa pillows at a store halfway around the world from our living room. Well, because they'd match the couch. I mean, anyone can see they'd match, right? Look at 'em.
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Autism is a physiological difference in the brain/nervous system. Our brains work differently.
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@sal
I don't think he's talking about a cause, it's more "this is why".
For me, all my life I've wondered why am I like this? Why does that always happen to me? Why can't I just make friends/get along with people/feel comfortable in crowds?
Because I'm autistic. Not bad, not stupid, not broken, just autistic.
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So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.