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@actuallyautistic
After being here some time now and reading the accounts of those recently diagnosed, whether officially or self, as autistic, there does seem to be a difference sometimes between those of us diagnosed later in life and those earlier. I think, in so many respects, it's how much you see it as a burden, a life struggle and a hurdle, that will always be there and how much that knowledge impacts you and has to be dwelt with. It just seems to me that the older you are, the more likely you are to see it as far more of a relief than a burden.
That is because so many of us have spent our lives as if in one of those dystopian nightmares we can all have now and again. Where nothing is as it seems. Where you wander a world that seems as if it should be familiar, but where nothing is where it should be, or does what it should do. Where the people you meet in it seem as if they should be someone you know, but then are something completely different. Where you are lost, even though you feel you should know the way, where things change without warning, forever trapping you in an unsolvable maze.
But then suddenly it's as if you've stepped out of that nightmare and into a dream. A golden beautiful dream where we stumble upon something that feels like home. Not a perfect home, not our real world home, but nevertheless something that feels more like home than anything ever has or could. That is what a diagnosis can feel like to us all. Finally finding a home. The difference being that the longer you've spent in the nightmare, the more the dream can come as a relief and the more you can ignore just how much work needs to be done on that home.

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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic Most people who tell you their problems are looking for you to express empathy, not for you to propose a solution.

Watch from the very beginning of the "racial brawl" and you see it was *everyone* against maga racists. Making it white vs. black is just them trying to divide us. MAGA RACISTS are the enemy of ALL DECENT FOLKS, ALWAYS. #montgomery #fascism #alabama #solidarity

https://old.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/15k6df5/how_the_whole_alabama_ferry_brawl_started/?rdt=38925

My inner dialogue has drastically changed. That’s what my late dx did for me. I don’t have this unkind internal voice like I used to have. A kinder me is speaking now. A forgiving me voice. How life changing inside my own mind that is. From the inside out…beautiful change that does not scare me for once. #gratitude #autism #adhd #differentnotbroken #internalvoice

If you tell me you’re an alpha I’m going to assume you mean like the radiation: incredibly weak, struggles to achieve penetration, but when it does it causes incredible amounts of long term damage.

Is this exclusively a Canadian game?

Sorry, had to ask.

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@dukeoffailure @actuallyautistic I’ve worked in office with teammates who I just barely got along with, and at home for the past 3 years. I, weirdly, feel more like I’m connected to my team when I’m not forced to be physically there with them. If that makes sense.