@lednabm @shades @DavidCorn
And I don't want to have just the two parties either so I'm working to make it so every American votes using Ranked Choice which I think is the only way to break their hegemony, but it's going to take time.
If we allow Republicans to gain more power it becomes even harder though and will end up taking longer so...vote blue in every election and especially in the primaries to pick the most progressive candidates there.
Reddit is warning volunteer moderators they could be replaced if they keep popular subreddits private to protest Reddit's plan to charge for API access. https://www.pcmag.com/news/reddit-ceo-threatens-to-boot-moderators-who-back-blackout-protest
@SecularJeffrey I can help you out with the last one.
Conductivity is always maxed out as resistance is futile. Now lower your shields and surrender your ships
A little bit of better news, mixed in with some bad news:
"31 percent of Black Americans say their financial situation has gotten better over the past year, up from 25 percent in 2022. Nearly 8 in 10 Black Americans say their finances have been stable or improved in recent years."
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@actuallyautistic Reading Unmasking Autism at the moment and my mask is very much my special interest right now. I'm starting to think that my mask might be just broken - After decades of masking and not getting much out of it, I feel that I just can't mask anymore in 'friendly' social situations.
But I also don't feel safe being myself. This has led to a total halt of all social activities for a few years now. Anyone else have some insight or experience with this?
Good, Dems are finally stepping up, but since polls show that the economy is the #1 issue, justice & the rule of law with respect to #TFG will be secondary: The DCCC is seizing the chance to neutralize Republican attacks on Dems as soft on crime, pointing to Memorial Day billboards it bought in swing districts spotlighting GOP lawmakers for not denouncing Trumpβs attacks on LE agencies... #GOPLies Biden allies start to chafe at Demsβ silent treatment of his indictment: https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/biden-allies-start-chafe-democrats-silent-treatment-trump-indictment-rcna89458
I only just today realized: I don't have friends in real life anymore. Everyone has moved away, no one can afford to live here now.
The only people I talk to are my sister, my niece and my coworkers.
To be fair, I don't even know HOW to be friends these days; I work and go home, sleep, and go back to work. There's no time or space to make friends, except online. I couldn't afford to be social, even if "being sociable" wasn't so uncomfortable for me.
When I "had friends", it was all based on how hard I was masking and overcompensating.
I'll never be able to do that again... and I don't even WANT to be able to do it again. That was a fake me.
Still, it's sad and scary to be so isolated.
#BessieSmith - NOBODY KNOWS YOU WHEN YOU'RE DOWN AND OUT.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zea-1Fzi9JQ&pp=ygUdYmVzc2llIHNtaXRoIG5vYm9keSBrbm93cyB5b3U%3D&pbjreload=102
I've got a research paper* that I'm almost ready to send to co-authors for comments before submitting for peer-review, and I keep adding stuff. I really need to take to heart this advice I got from a mentor years ago: "A science paper is never done. At some point, you just have to set it free."
*this paper is NOT ABOUT SATELLITES TAKE THAT BILLIONAIRES I'm still doing astronomy despite the all shit you're putting in orbit in my way.
Late identified #ActuallyAutistic humans often find themselves moving a lot - especially to new countries.
There is something about not being "weird" for being you, just being foreign. There is also an element of being able to shed the past and build anew.
Do you relate?
@kacey @theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics I'm not living in autistic burnout anymore since I have my own business and work when and as it pleases me. I earn very little and must be very careful how I spend money, but I am much, much happier now. It was more or less forced. The business I was working at closed down and I could either take the business and workers over (no way), find another job (and face the same problems) or go it alone. I chose the last and it is good.
@ScottSoCal @theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @coffee needs more French Press
@RenoirDana @BZBrainz @audhd @actuallyautistic Yeah, you have to negotiate. I started stimming before my cancer. However, most of it was not visible to my ex-wife. I've always been stimmer seeking audio-visual stimulation. On the other hand, my ex-wife's ADHD evolved to make her avoid strobe light effects.
After my cancer I spend a lot of time in the living room listening to YT. She did not like the music, and she did not like the strobes that some music videos had. (According to her.) So I eventually got headphones and would listen to YT on my laptop. That meant that sometimes I wouldn't see the music video. But even when they are on the TV I don't always scrutinize all of them.
I'd put the music videos back on the TV when she was out of the house.
Alas, our marriage was already on the rocks (a good 2 years before my cancer) so that did not save it, but it did lessen the friction.
How do my #ActuallyAutistic coffee nerds brew?
#AskingAutistics @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @coffee
There is an unspoken hierarchy of sexual identities under patriarchy with women and femininity being considered inferior and "bad," and everyone who is not a toxically masculine cis-het man gets kicked down into some level of the woman / inferior status as a matter of course, but instead of reckoning with the inherent misogyny of this system and trying to dismantle it, most people spend their time jockeying for position within it by punching down on someone else.
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So... me. Work in aerospace, more space, not as much aero. Can fix my own car, choose not to. Can fix the random appliance of your choice. Hardcore introvert in person, which is why I love online. Lifelong science fiction fan. Read constantly. Scalzi is my favorite author, because he mixes exactly the right amount of snark into his writing. Together with a guy 30+ years, married since it was legal. Own a home in CA and don't plan to leave unless I immigrate to another country.